Mentor, a Change Agent
Did you look back over the events of 2013 and reflect about their significance? About where you go from here? I did, and not too far into the process, had to narrow my focus to those events that affected me personally. (Others can ponder the government shutdown and how it affected all of us.) I was surprised at how much change occurred in one year and how little of that change I intended. What hadn’t changed was my waning memory, so I relied on weekly letters that I wrote and shared with my mentor. Throughout the year I responded to a few questions about the previous week. Where have I been resentful? Selfish? Have I been of service? How are my relationships with family and friends? What did I do well? Where was I pleased? I loved reflecting and writing about the week because it revealed my emotional/spiritual well-being and what needed work. My mentor read and commented on each week’s letter, pointing out the obvious and ‘suggesting’ alternatives. I love her because she’s h...